Sunday, August 31, 2014

You walk alone

The need can never be fulfilled, you will have to walk alone and pave the way of life. There is no shortcut. Nor if you are accompanied by someone it becomes easy rather I find it too difficult to lead life with others. When there is no respect or when you are not given the value that you deserve for, you really find it meaningless to move along with others.
I don't know why people think of someone in their life. I think, the moment there is someone in your life, you are given away your true sense of freedom. You tend to belong to others and thrive hard to pursue and make happy others.
Let me not get into such bondage wherein I lose my own identity and dignity. I wish to lead, I wish to decide and take my own decision. 

Friday, August 29, 2014

Being Truly Blessed...

When we all think of sipping a warm cup tea with some hot snacks on a rainy day, I came across those who are blessed to enjoy this rain. As they had no shelter, instead of running hither and tither, they had unlimited fun. More cautious to enjoy and not to miss the chance of having fun with true nature, they all went on splashing water on their friends,jumping with a thud and laughing heartily.
Though I am blessed with all amenities, I am missing these. Sometimes, being not blessed is also a great blessing...My Heart Realized....


Thursday, August 28, 2014

Rain Drops

Showers of Rain
Cooling the nature and seeping the plain
Allowing the seeds to nourish
and to replenish
The stocks of farmer
Covering the terrain
Greenery everywhere
A lot to share
With the needy and the deprived
To fill heart with joy
To allow human to enjoy
The bounty of nature
Showers of Rain
Indeed quenching the thirst
And let the seed burst
Into a healthy plant
To grow and sustain

Friday, August 22, 2014

Attachment

When you are deeply attached with someone it is tough to listen anything bad about him/her. You know that no one is born perfect. Also the bitter fact that people tend to develop certain bad habits. But it is too hard to admit the fact that the person whom you love more than your life, is at flaw. Though you can't avoid the bad habits still you can create situations or motivate others so that he/she can stay away from it.Your attachment can help you a lot.

Friday, July 4, 2014

Morning Breeze

Morning breeze blew the yellow flowers
On the street, over the path
Millions walk and trample these flowers
Still they lay, with their iconic beauty
Lest they are badly crushed
Their beauty is ruptured
Mixing with the dust and soil
It talks about their turmoil
But, no one heard its pray
Was it waiting for someone, who may
Pick it up, and put it in vase
Alas! it is crumbled and dead
No more beauty, nothing to be said...



Sunday, June 15, 2014

Mystical Life

Discomfort of life may seem to be tough and challenging yet they come up with a new lesson to learn and to make our life worth living.
Today while returning from my friends place, I saw two kids chit-chatting. Scorching sun, unbeatable heat had no affect on these kids. They were happy because they have learnt the art of adjusting with what they had rather craving for those that they may wish to but hard to get.
I reached home. This was just a sight that I may often see. But it had an empathetic impact over me. Reason being, due to regular power cut, the battery back-up of the inverter could not support and I had to live with discomfort for an hour till the power supply was resumed.
I got irritated but the moment I recalled those two boys, their sun tanned body with bare feet, my thinking drifted away from the discomfort to the life of adjustment. I filled a glass of chilled water from the earthen pot and sipped it. The newspaper enticed me and my mind was deeply engrossed into the published news.
Angry and discomfort you can bear only shift your thought.
May be this is the simple art of living...living with peace and comfort even when there is discomfort.

Happy Reading!!!

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

How to overcome common budgeting errors

Many of you manage to come up with a decent budget, but may end up looking to be just that - budgets! The reality turns out to be far from what you chalked out initially. This typically happens due to an oversight that renders your work useless. Here are a few tips on how to build a realistic budget:

Anything that can go wrong will go wrong

Murphy's Law fits into many aspects of life, it somehow fits the budgeting aspect to the 'T'. Many people don't set aside money for items like medical emergencies, car damages and home maintenance. These may be irregular costs, but they are not necessarily unexpected. Almost all cars and homes eventually need overhauling. The amount of repairs depends upon age, quality of construction and maintenance; it may do us good if we set aside a certain nominal percentage out of the net earnings on a monthly basis to cater solely for such contingent expenses.

Drawing inferences from past

The only way to build a realistic budget is to draw regular and appropriate inferences from the past expenditures on an itemized basis. The amount spent on each of the items may not vary drastically on a month-to-month basis unless they are seasonal / based on occasions. In fact, there are trends that one needs to keep in mind whilst building the budget. One could provision for purchasing apparels, sweets, household items / durables a little higher during festive season. Similarly, the electricity bill could possibly run high during summer due to increased usage of AC / fan.

Save first, spend later

Most of us would have thought that this should have been written the other way round. However, a more effective way of ensuring that you buy only what you need and do not end up in a cash crunch, is to set aside a percentage of money as savings and use the rest for buying essentials and utilities. Moreover, by strictly adhering to this principle, you will put your money to work and build a decent corpus for your financial goals.

Emergency fund

Typically one should hold at least 3 months of household expenses in easily accessible avenues; this could be your savings bank or flexi-fixed deposits, or for the emergency fund. The emergency fund may not always necessarily cater to medical emergency; this fund could come in handy for other reasons like job loss / transition, and other unexpected and unavoidable expenses

Include the fun element

Although, going out for luncheons, inviting friends over could be an occasional thing, it becomes important to provisions for these aspects as well. However, if you do not keep a tab on these, it could burn a big hole in your budget and turn it topsy-turvy.

Remember your investment commitments

Your premium payment on the insurance may be due only during a particular month of the year; however, one has to realize that this has to be planned out of the net earnings. One usually plans for the typical ongoing expenses: groceries, utilities and fuel, but forgets yearly expenses such as insurance premiums, property taxes etc

Trying to keep up with peers

Peer pressure seems to be affecting every aspect of life, specially the lifestyle that we maintain. If your friend bought a new smart phone, you would want to buy one on par or even better than that to indulge in the experience of using one too. There are also many other ways in which one could end up spending more than one actually earns. This is the easiest and most common means of getting into a debt trap! Remember that buying only what you need actually makes you stand out in the crowd.

Not being motivated

Sticking to a budget would require more or less the same willpower as one would while dieting or doing regular exercise. One should self-motivate by awarding oneself if the budget is successfully implemented. The reward could be in the form of extra self-indulgence, however, remember the whole point of building an effective budget is to put your money to best use and not to indulge in frivolous expenses.

Hope this helps you to start-off on the path to build an effective budget sans loopholes. And come the end of the year, your adherence to the budget should make you proud!