Friday, February 27, 2015

Thoughts

Wide spread white clouds with different shapes and structures made me realize how creative my mind is.
When I talk to people, friends or strangers I often felt that I was running short of ideas, thoughts upon which I can continue the conversation for a competitive time.
Left with blank mind with no pictures, I started considering it as my lameness. But when I looked up high in the sky, the wonderful shapes and its identification with some or the other object made me think and understand about my latent strength.
I had painted my thoughts with no picture, always feeding my mind with the statement, I can not do this...and I can not do that and thus reprimanding my own creativity to presenting things thoughtfully and killing creativity in every manner.
Life is a white sheet which we paint by our thoughts. The better you paint, more encouraging your ideas would be to express and present your thoughts strongly with right aspiration and vociferously.
Hesitation will get shunned and your bubbling confidence could be seen in your vocal and body language.
The simple tip to overcome the problem of hesitation, I realized only after several years of my failure where I did less of introspection and more of lamenting.
I fine day, these clouds gave me a new direction. I started unfurling my ideas one after the other. Inner confidence has recouped and hesitation vanished out of my thoughts.



Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Writing Email

In the afternoon when I opened my mail box, I was surprised when I saw a mail from one of the friends who had sent a bulk mail. Instead of bcc, he marked the email ids in cc.
Though this might be just a mistake from his end, but I was shocked as I could witness more than four hundred mail ids. One was that of mine.
Sheer mistake but things went into mayhem.
He might have checked his mail may be later or when few people like me might had shown regret, wherein our email ids was in common display. Further, the mail that he had shared was a forwarded one. The subject column was full of Re/Fwd instead showing clearly the real subject line.
I felt how important it is for everyone of us to have proper understanding of email etiquette. Be it in professional or personal life, we need to understand the significance of mailing anything to anyone. Sometimes I fear, what a mess it is when people share their problems and seek answer for their problems through mail, while they are working in the same firm, talking ill about peer or colleague. Are you aware that your mail can be easily hacked or accessed.
When you shoot a mail, also do remember that things are communication with right intention.
Well emailing has reduced the time of sending and getting reply of the letter but yes Privacy - is at stake. Do remember this.
Think twice before you draft any mail. Even when you write any, read it twice to know whether it would be sensed in the same manner as you wish to serve.



Monday, February 2, 2015

Think Big

Dream big and think big to reach to great heights. Often I heard my father driving my disappointed heart with this statement. It used to rush a positive force in my adrenaline and had driven some kind of positive stimuli which made me think about any hurdle from different point of view. I still remember, I was on beach side, had built castle with sand. The moment the wave touched the castle, it flushed it of and had shuddered the sand. There was no sight hard labor that I had implied. Tears rushed into my eyes. But my father told me, a different story. He said, learn the lesson that the wave has left for me to learn. Problems in life will be mounted and will surely form its own castle. But do not let it leave any impression. The time is a great healer. Let all the problems get flushed out of mind similarly the the wave does.
I thought for a while, I had my own doubts whether I will be able to apply the same in my journey of life. When I was youth, I thought it as an advise from father, later it turned as a bible; it has helped me to combat with tough times, also how to fight hard with problem areas and how to shed away my stress too.
Lesson though learnt at tender age but its application and implication in future had nurtured my thoughts.